Wife, mom, artist, and full-time chaos wrangler with a camera in one hand and snacks in the other. I live for the real stuff—belly laughs, big feelings, chipped nail polish, and quiet light that sneaks through the window just right.
This work is how I see the world…
and how I love it back.
Some engagement sessions are about celebration.
Others are about repair.
This couple arrived carrying a quiet disappointment. Their first photography experience hadn’t gone the way they hoped. They felt awkward, unseen, unsure of how to exist in front of a camera. And that kind of experience can linger — it makes people brace instead of open.
So this session wasn’t just about pretty light in Harpers Ferry.
It was about rebuilding trust.

Almost every couple tells me some version of the same thing:
“We’re awkward.”
“We don’t know what to do with our hands.”
“We’re not photogenic.”
What they’re really saying is:
“We don’t want to feel judged.”
My job is not to pose people into submission. It’s to create a space where they can relax long enough to remember who they are together.
Once that happens, the photographs follow naturally.
This session unfolded slowly. Walking the streets. Laughing at nothing. Letting the town hold the quiet in-between moments. By the end, they weren’t thinking about the camera at all.
And that’s when the real images appeared.






Harpers Ferry holds history in its bones. Brick streets. River light. Old buildings that feel like they’ve watched generations pass through. It’s romantic without trying too hard.
Engagement sessions in Harpers Ferry, West Virginia offer texture and atmosphere without overwhelming the couple. The setting supports the story instead of competing with it.
It becomes a backdrop for connection.
And connection is the point.







The best engagement sessions don’t look like a Pinterest board.
They look like a conversation between two people who know each other deeply.
This couple didn’t need elaborate posing. They needed permission to exist as themselves — to touch casually, laugh freely, and trust that the camera would meet them where they were instead of demanding performance.
That’s the foundation of every session I photograph.
You don’t have to be good at photos.
You just have to be willing to show up as you.






I photograph engagement sessions throughout Harpers Ferry, Loudoun County, Northern Virginia, and the Washington, DC area, focusing on natural interaction, emotional honesty, and environments that feel grounded and timeless.
These sessions are less about creating a perfect image and more about documenting the way you move through the world together. When couples feel safe, the photographs carry that safety.
And safety is beautiful.
👉 Inquire here to schedule your engagement session
Because the right photographer doesn’t just take pictures.
They help you feel seen.
This is what love looks like up close.










What if we’re awkward in front of the camera?
Almost everyone feels awkward at first. A good photographer doesn’t expect performance — they guide gently, create conversation, and build trust so the focus shifts from the camera back to each other.
How do we choose the right engagement photographer?
Look for someone whose work feels emotionally aligned with how you want to remember this season. Beyond style, pay attention to how they communicate. You should feel heard, safe, and understood before the session even begins. Technical skill matters, but emotional comfort matters more.
Do engagement sessions require posing experience?
No. Engagement sessions are collaborative. My role is to create movement, prompts, and environments that help you interact naturally. You don’t need modeling skills — you need connection.
How long does an engagement session last?
Most sessions last 60–90 minutes. This allows time to warm up, explore the location, and settle into a rhythm without rushing.
What should we wear for an engagement session?
Clothing should feel like an elevated version of yourselves. Coordinated tones, comfortable fabrics, and pieces you can move in photograph beautifully. I provide wardrobe guidance so nothing feels uncertain.
Where should engagement sessions take place?
Choose locations that feel meaningful or visually grounding — historic towns like Harpers Ferry, natural landscapes, or familiar places you love together. The environment should support your story, not distract from it.






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